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By George A. Boyd © 2004
To train the intuition, you can learn to perceive and
listen to where your clients material arises. Very different issues
arise from ego, Self and Soul. Some of the signals from each of these
identity states include:
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Elements of the Three States of Identity
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State of Identity
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Ego
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It reacts to challenges with defensiveness and vigilance. It
views itself as organism that needs to survive. It enlists defense
mechanisms, violence or profanity to fend off perceived threats.
It operates from a fight or flight reaction to stress. It has
limited coping mechanisms.
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Self
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It develops skills to cope or deal with stress, the demands of
the situation or with a difficult person. It enhances the sense
of oneself as a person by the ability to make choices and commitments,
and to take responsibility. It possesses values by which it can
decide what is right action. It has the ability to plan to think
and problem-solve, and the ability to decide. It uses intuition
to check in with oneself. It uses assertiveness in relationship
interactions, and establishes stable bonds of friendship and love.
It evaluates appropriate risk-taking.
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Soul
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It may present as a sense of god-likeness, grandiosity or omnipotence.
It conveys a sense oneself as an atom of the Divine. It believes
in and expresses psychic powers (siddhis, gifts or spiritual abilities).
It perceives the patterns of a Divine Plan or working out of destiny.
It experiences union with the Cosmos or at-one-ness with the Divine.
It transcends and is detached from personal experience. It may
perceive that the personal realm is limited or illusory
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Much of the work of psychotherapy is training an individual
to move from egoic-polarization to self-polarization. Meditation and Transpersonal
Psychology shift an individual to the next octave, opening from the personal
world of the Self to the transpersonal world of the Soul.
You may first learn to recognize these states in yourself
by focusing your attention on your ego, your Self and your Soul. With
some practice, you will learn to recognize the characteristic patterns
that arise from each center. You will then begin to observe similar patterns
in others, which will help you to grasp from where these issues are arising.
This in turn will aid you to discern what is the appropriate intervention
to use with your client.
Intuition-enhancing meditation techniques are presented
in our Meditation for Therapists workshop. Some of you may find
this workshop valuable to augment your current therapeutic armamentarium,
and to learn new ways to guide your client from stuck-ness to wholeness.

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